But I think she is a decent person overall. The quieter Barnett is probably more like who he is IRL. I don’t think he is a player at all . The fact that Jessica took that as some sort of honest proposal means they When two ppl had the same name, they pulled them both aside and asked if one had a nickname. And I think he actually was one of the few guys who actually was enamored by Amber. So I think for him it was a match made in heaven.That’s an interesting observation about his personality in the pod VS out! Barnett from 'Love Is Blind' had a choice to make between Amber, Jessica, and LC. And it's one of the reasons why she didn't chose him. • Jessica felt blindsided when Barnett told her he wasn’t ready to propose to her. So we all know during the beginning of the show till the end, Jessica was complaining that Marc is 24 and she is 34. And they wanted to play up Jessica’s one-sides grabs for his affection.To be fair, Barnett just seems like maybe more on the introvert side and better at one-to-one interactions?Exactly .

But then she realizes he’s hot and suddenly she can’t get over their connection.THANK YOU! In regards to Amber, I think she is still just immature and not really “cultured” in this world so that’s why she sometimes rubs people the wrong way. I can’t get over the fact that he said “if there were no other girls I’d marry you” as a compliment. I don’t think he was trying to be cool or a player. I was shocked that Jessica took it as a compliment.

I remember when I first started dating my boyfriend I showed him pictures of me with all the celebrities I’ve met, and adventures I had been on. He basically said "if you were the last human* on earth, I'd totally propose to you!"Also of note: Barnett would apparently be “sophisticated” and other bullshit that frat boy is not if he had chosen her? Then outside the pods they were going for a different look. The love triangle between Jessica, Mark, and Barnett was *a lot*. Who you saw after the pods was his real personality. Can't even remember now.I agree with this and on the flip side I also feel that the closeness outside the pods allowed him to be more relaxed as well, which comes with more time together.Also, I really liked his calm, chill self after the pods better.Loved your response . Imagine if you didn’t have to see a person I think your normal personality is either suppressed or enhanced... depending how introverted or extroverted you naturally are. The fact that Jessica took that as some sort of honest proposal means they deserve each other. I could be wrong about this story though. Barnett: I’m sorry. But you can tell these are ordinary people coming from different life circumstances: Jessica said she was recovering from a bad breakup and just kind of trying everything, Lauren is a content creator but seems more artsy than the average Instagirl, Kelly wanted to promote her pyramid scheme lol. It was something generic, but fit him. The result is that you don't get them creating drama for the camera's sake and displaying pre-determined personas, you get a lot of awkward people getting too drunk and not knowing how to act. She didn’t expect Barnett and Amber to work, but also never really vibed with … That isn’t my real daily life, it’s apart of what I like, and is certainly interesting, but you can’t talk about the exciting stuff forever.